Responsibilities

I know that people coming from diverse background and have different ways of handling things. Some choose to face it, some choose to escape from it. The later one is what I found intimidating. 

Ken has ben avoiding us for two days. He said he would turn up but he didn't. In stead of calling us up and said he couldn't make it, he chose to hide away from us. Maybe what he did was not so bad but because of him trying to "flee" from the trouble that he made instead of remediating it, he has just worsen the situation. He has now got on to everyone's nerve. 

Why is it so hard to admit that you are wrong? Is it so hard to say sorry? Jasper once told me that "sorry" is the best cure for anything in the world. Why do people often tend to prevent from saying "sorry"? I hate it when they try to ignore and hoping that when they come back things would be okay. In actual fact, we all know that it will not get better without remediation.

John did the same thing. He disappeared all of the sudden. No one could find him, and he was not answering his phone. When he was finally found a week later, his excuses was he just snapped out of it and decided to let go without telling anyone. Did he expect everyone of us to just know how he feels? We would stop looking or worrying sick if we knew what he was up to. Pah...

M is doing that, too. Pretending that she does not know and does not care. I know what she is up to, she was hoping that things would disappear.  Sigh..

I mean I just do not understand how could there be people who are so irresponsible about their behavior or life? These are all signs of lacking responsibility. How could one live their life thinking that they could always escape from being responsible for their action?

He, too left just like that without any signs/signals. I mean he could have come up with any excuses at all to get things sorted. Instead, he chose to be vanished all of the sudden. 

pondering...

Anyway, I have just finished watching a movie named "Fracture" starred by Anthony Hopkins. I really like him and I think he is a brilliant actor.  

"Fracture" is a very good movie. In the movie, Anthony killed his wife for having an affair. His plot was brilliant, it did not only kill his wife but also got him out of the conviction. 

Now, would I kill if I was betrayed? I have been betrayed many times, so I know for a fact that I will not kill if someone betrayed me. It may have cross my mind of doing it but I will never never have the guts to do it. Besides, it is not severe enough for me to have the urge to kill too. Oh well...

Good luck for my interview tomorrow. *pray pray*