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Now, people often say that women are the "trouble" bunch because they are difficult to handle and that they are too emotional and blah blah blah. I will have to disagree to that, I think men are worst!

I mean they could be really affectionate and just sweep you off you feet one day and be really cold and act as "he could care less" towards you another day??? Can't they be consistent?  It is like they have been diagnosed with multi personalities symptom.

Men could be moody like women, too. I have concluded that (and I am sure a few men would agree to this) men actually do get PMS! In fact they get it almost every single day! I mean, is that not worst comparing to us women who get that every month?

Sometimes they are loving, sometimes they do not care, and most of the time, they flirt! I mean, they are ALL the same. They are! They flirt regardless, whether they have partners, whether you are pretty or not. I mean I love flirting every now and then but I certainly would not go too far. (shake head)  I do not understand... . 

It makes me wonder if I get a partner, and he goes and flirts around without my knowledge, I mean what should I do? Why get a partner in the first place? Why don't we just flirt around occasionally with different people and no string attach? Really, what is the whole point of being in a relationship? 

Someone told me that you need a partner to keep you company, you need a partner to "breed", you need a partner to listen, you need a partner to take care of you, etc. Honestly, do you get that with your partner?

Some even told me that love does not last more than 3 months and after that it is all just staying together for the sake of being together. Then kids came along, before you know it, you are tied down and you cannot go anywhere without their consent!!

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Let's go back a few steps. My point is, it is really frustrating to know people cannot be real to one another. I mean being cold at one time and loving another time is REALLY confusing. Pah..., I am sick of trying to figure out what is on their mind. 

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I believe I am out of line here. I am not sure what is the real theme for this posting today. I am just rambling what's on my head, I guess....